Are you like me? In the absence of any information about him, did you entertain a weird moment of hope that Kim Jong Il’s son was maybe going to be somehow more grounded and in the real world and might be like some sort of storybook prince who makes up for the evils of his father, the wicked king?

Like how, in myth, Arthur was good and virtuous, following Uther Pendragon, who was not?

Who knows, he may well yet be. Here’s hoping. But I gotta tell you, wrong as it is to judge books by their covers and all, when I finally saw a picture of Un, my hopes on this score were deflated. He looks like a Korean Francis Buxton from PEE-WEE’S BIG ADVENTURE. I fear he may be intent on stealing South Korea’s awesome bike. “It’s my birthday, and my father said I can have anything I want.”

I had wanted to write a timely article about Hostess snack cakes, with Hostess filing for bankruptcy being in the news.

But between trying to get the kids fed and to sleep and then trying to finish the book I’m writing, it seemed sort of superfluous. But it reminded me of something I had written a long while ago, about snack cakes and grade school. It was something I had posted on my old site for a long while. That site is offline and, I realized, that this story no longer had a place in the world. So, in honor of the memories of Twinkies and Choco-Diles and Fruit Pies past, I offer it up here, only slightly edited. (This was done in 1999, in a world and an internet without Facebook and Google-as-a-fact-of-everyone’s-life, so I have taken out last names.)

Also, speaking of Facebook, the story ended up finishing itself in a very magical way, decades after it happened and was told and retold. Below are the opening paragraphs, but clicking on the “read it all” link will bring you to a recreation of how I formatted it back in 1999, on www.itsthecatsass.com (ITCA to those in the club).

Here’s how it went down.
The year was 1981. Gil Gerard ruled the airwaves as BUCK ROGERS. The Atari 2600 was in its heyday, having yet to disappoint the gaming public with its anemic version of PAC MAN. Dudley Moore was winning America’s heart with his whimsical onscreen alcoholism and wacky drunk-driving antics in ARTHUR. MAD MAGAZINE was having a grand ol’ time parodying Ronald Reagan and Ed Meese, leaving me, in third grade, trying to memorize Al Jaffee’s “Snappy Comebacks to Stupid Questions” baffled. Who the hell was Ed Meese? And my family was moving from a small town called Oxford to a small town called Southbury.

My dad had, in a surprising twist of career-fate, been offered a job on a 300-cow dairy farm. (Long story, please don’t ask. My dad led a weird charmed life.) Part of the perk of this position was that it came with not only free lodging for the family, but free lodging in a beautiful, 250 year old Colonial house, with a crazy amount of rooms. Being used to living in apartments and small places, this sprawling manse with its hardwood floors and honest craftsmanship offered my folks a chance to save money, while living in spacious and bucolic accommodations. A deal too good to be true. And, like any such deal, it turned out to be just that.

But at least AT FIRST, it was a joy for my folks.

For me, however, it was not so much wine and roses. Moving, when you are going into third grade, is playing what may be called a kind of emotional Russian Roulette. It’s altogether possible that the barrel will spin onto an empty chamber, and the trigger-pull of uprooting your established friendships and replacing your familiar school hallways with new ones will, in the hollow click of disaster averted, give you a second lease on life, and a new, better perspective.

Or, as in my case, the thing can end up blowing your mind, and leaving chunks of your soul on the walls and carpet.

READ IT ALL….

The blog is sleeping, not dead. Just trying to finish the book I’m writing, so free writing-time goes there and not here.

This is the first “Look, ma, I made a meme!” things I’ve done. I’ve often wondered who and where these things come from. So, if you are of a mind, spread it like it was herpes and/or something cute and cat-related.

(for Donnacha)

A while back, after a punishing rain, I helped clear out my mother’s basement of damaged boxes and old and useless things tucked down there for convenience’s sake, which had grown to an inconvenient tangle of things. Artifacts of our life, of my dad’s life. Important things.

I was uniquely qualified to do this because buried among the junk and boxes of papers were treasures that only I could know were important. Letterhead from his TV days; an ancient jacket patch from his stint in Korea as a rabies control soldier in a combat zone. There was lots of chaff, but there was some very, very important wheat to be found. And, thanks to my folks’ habit of clearing away clutter into boxes and tendency to “sort them later,” (read: never) many pieces of treasure were scattered here and there, hiding between old bills or restaurant fliers across multiple boxes.

The word “journey” is overused in pop psychology to lend an instant air of gravitas to any set of events. But this task really was  something of a mythic journey: part descent into the underworld, part cleaning of the Aegean Stables, part father-quest. In sifting through both the detritus and the documents that spanned back through my whole history as a person, in scattered order, I found that I was also unpacking and sifting through my own internal landscape of memory and seeing how it fit in with these artifacts. Or seeing how they unfolded memories and informed them.

Then magic started happening. For real and true. Real magic isn’t the kind you’ve been led to believe, with arcane vapors and mystic lights appearing and things floating. Real magic is, I think, the intersection of will and action meeting with chance encounters made possible by that will and action, wherein those “chances” show you things that you’re willing to see. Real magic is a dialog between you and what you are doing and perceiving. I chose to make the the task more than a task: I was open for it to show me and teach me. And also hurt me, if it was going to. It did all those things.

I learned (among other things) through a history of lawyer letters and correspondence- once again, pieced together across many containers and boxes– that I was never privy to, just how hard my father fought to keep contact with his children from his first marriage. What he sacrificed, how he struggled. I never really knew the extent. I mean, I was a kid, I was aware in a peripheral way, how kids soak up things and overhear conversation snippets. But now, I was aware.

I learned, too, how spiteful and how deeply cruel his former wife had been, both to him and to my brother and sister. It informed me, now, as a father myself, of the nature of the pain that he held, all throughout my happy childhood adventures with him and showed me a hidden aspect of the man who taught me what it is to be a man.

Then I found this. It is a letter my dad wrote to himself, to organize and figure out where his head was as he turned 50. I had no idea my dad did this sort of thing. I do this sort of thing; I did not know we shared that trait. It is a “letter” he wrote and filed away, being read by no one.

But there is magic in intention and magic in doing, and this letter traveled through almost 22 years in time to be delivered to my hands, just when I needed to read it. The will and intention of the writing in one point in space and time meeting the will and intention in another, to take on this daunting, cluttered space with a paleontologist’s sense of delicacy and together, creating a “new” conversation, a “new” communication with my father, almost two years dead. In reading it, in being the only person in the world to ever read it besides him, I realized it was meant for me. Not by him in that moment, but certainly in this moment, here, in this basement, underground and digging through time to find it.

If that isn’t magic that puts vanishing handkerchiefs and mysteriously floating orbs to shame, I don’t know what is. Here is my father’s letter to himself, written to himself when he was 50 and I was 15, turning 16. It is also, as it turns out a letter to me, delivered to my hands when I was 38 and ready to hear it. It is about life and living and death and grieving and I choose to take it as an act of a master magician that I received it as I did, when I did, and how I did. Maybe a joint act of two magicians.

Letters To Myself
By Joel Dobbin

I was thining about John Lennon the other day; about his life, and about his death. Mostly though, I was thining about his life. It started me thinking about a lot of other things. Thinking about artists and how they’re viewed by the rest of the world. In that respect, Lennon’s life wasn’t all that different from the lives of other artists throughout history.
Conventional society, whatever that may be at any given point in time in the history of man, has some strong dichotomous feelings about art and artists. It’s sort of a case of “Love Art, Hate Artists.” Well, maybe not really hate artists; more like being scared shitless of them.

I think I understand it. Artists aren’t safe. They make regular people uncomfortable. Artists just don’t play by the rules. Shit, they don’t even play by their own rules. They just play the game as it comes, making up the rules as they go and them breaking them just as easily as they fabricated them in the first place. That could be very scary for the majority of humanity, who live out their lives utterly bound to rules that were created for them by people they’ve never met.

Most people are so fucking preoccupied with dying that they wind up scatred to death of life and living. Religion has ‘em by the balls.

It really doesn’t even matter what religion, basically they’re all similar. Most religions, at least those of the Western Civilization genre, are nothing more than thinly disguised death-cults, which doesn’t make a lick of sense when you look at it dispassionately.

I mean, here’s life. That’s a tangible.

Except for a lot of philosophical, semantic horseshit about questioning the reality of one’s own existence, an individual’s life is the only tangible that he or she really has. Life is REAL! If you don’t believe it, stop breathing, stop eating! Or try jabbing yourself in the genitals with a rusty serving fork. That should answer any questions you may have about the reality of your own existence.

And then there’s death. Now that’s a tangible as well. Basically, an unpleasant prospect, but nevertheless, an absolute. It’s the period following death that’s in question.

Come to think of it,the big question is whether or not there’s any period of existence following death. Yet the vast majority of humanity finds themselves led around by the nose over the issue of what the period following death is all about, whose version is correct, then preparing for it.

Throughout history,the shamans have had so thoroughly bullshitted over an alleged life following death, very few of the masses have ever learned how to live completely in the only real existence that they can ever really be sure of. To further compound the stupidity, any one group of believers has always been only too eager to slaughter any other group of believers to prove their point.

So, here come the rules. Most of which are dedicated to a promised payoff in the great bye and bye.

Shit, like George Bernard Shaw said, “Dying is easy, comedy is hard!” Any schmuck can die; it takes a certain amount of courage and even pain to learn to laugh with guiltless joy.

That’s why artists are the true enemy of the people. They make everyone around nervous. They do things, they say things, they sing things, they write things, they create things that all the rest can hardly even dream about. Artists find within themselves the secret joys, fears, hopes, and dreams that exist in everyone and they go public with them.

Artists laugh with guiltless joy and then go play fuck all with the rules. And to make matters even worse, these creative sons of bitches live forever while the rules-players memories are nearly always interred with their bones. No wonder everyone hates their guts. By their lives works, they wipe humanity’s nose in the excrement of humanity’s own foolishness.

You disagree?

Most everyone with over an eighth grade education knows that Michelangelo painted the “Creation of Man” on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel. Michelangelo was a drunkard, homosexual, and by all accounts, a most unconventional and unpleasant fellow. He probably lived down the street from a good, solid businessman who devoted his life to following the rules and preparing himself for an eternal existence in the “great beyond.” If you can tell me his name, I’ll admit my error.

Shit, I’ll bet that nine out of ten rules-followers couldn’t even name the Pope who commissioned the Sistine Ceiling, let alone our pious hypothetical businessman.

When I was fourteen, my grandfather died. Now, to a fourteen year old, life has a certain sense of immutability. At least, it did to me, back in 1953. So, wen my grandfather died, the fabric of that immutability was suddenly shredded.

I mean, I always had a grandfather, ever since I could remember. Just like my father and mother were always about forty five or so, at least, ever since I could remember. And now, here comes this shit. Death.

It made absolute mincemeat out of my little adolescent sense of permanence. It was in the summer, I was working on a chicken farm in a little town in New York State by the name of Cuddebackville.

 

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I had no idea this cartoon existed until the other day. The opening theme song is quite possibly the best thing you will hear all day.

Or year. Or century.

It is just so shameless and presentational. If you go that route, you have to go hard and pass through a barrier of “bad” to get to “awesome.” This busts through that barrier with a macho war-cry.

I’m really not into the whole spin-the-bottle-mock-o-tron-3000 thing that goes on with stuff like Rebecca Black.

My only real take-away from that big, momentary Warhol-fame-bomb was that her parents, society, and people’s general sense of decency failed this poor girl. All in that order.

A lot of the mocking people who mocked her awful song and awful video seem to miss the larger point of the shared awareness of her being the ultimate meta-joke on all of us in a scheme where fame is a goal unto itself and not a by-product of doing something worthy.

ALL THAT SAID, this parody is friggin’ awesome.

I’m a science booster. I’m a robot booster. When it comes to advances, I’m on Team Boost.

But I gotta say, I have a kind of pit-of-the-stomach uncanny valley reaction in my gut and spine when I see robots veering toward anthropomorphism like this.

Scientists at UC3M are joining together in a shared project to work on endowing robot hands to….

replicate [the human hand's] grasping and movement abilities in an artificial, anthropomorphic articulated hand, thus endowing it with greater autonomy and producing natural and effective movements.

I’m of two diametrically opposed minds on this.

On the one (robotic) hand: It is all too often the convention of sci-fi movies to sell a secretly conservative, anti-progress message of “there are something mankind is not supposed to know...” or to show the folly of hubris in “playing god,” with the implicit idea that we have what we are supposed to have, and that creating new possibilities is taboo.

On paper, I don’t like that idea.

Jonas Salk “played god” and eradicated polio and eased human suffering on an almost unimaginable scale. Space telescopes are peering into the Universe’s past and unraveling the mysteries of all of creation, adding to human understanding in ways never dreamed of before.

The scientists of CERN, with the Large Hadron Collider search for elusive, theoretical particles that could bridge together a grander understanding of the origin of mass. With only 27 kilometers worth of innovated construction, they may just discover how all of space and time were formed.

That’s all awesome, in the old sense of the word, usually reserved for religious apprehensions of gods. Full of awe. Also, in the newer sense of the word; the “dude!” flavored meaning of “awesome.” Because seriously; how awesome is all that.

YET!

When I see a robot hand like this, in its infant stages, rudely approximating the fluid gestures of its human builders, I want to throw it into a pool of molten steel, TERMINATOR 2 style.

What causes that gut-level reaction? Is it a learned, Pavlovian involuntary response from so many books and movies cautioning against the unforeseen consequences of too much advancement too quickly?

Or is it a more primal, instinctual urge? Like the Darwinian practice of a lion destroying the cubs of a competing male?

I dunno. Either way, it all comes to the same thing: I see this hand in this picture and I can only imagine it, after some Moore’s Law driven iterations.

It’s all cute and fun now, with the oohs and ahhs and the safe 15-year projections on when some piece of tech might be able to naturally know its way around a screwdriver. But the same hands that we use to hold and manipulate screwdrivers also do some shady business.

I see this thing, in its future incarnation, all too easily and effortlessly pointing and firing a sleek machine-gun at its meat-based, wetware, legacy-version progenitors.

Which is to say, us.

Chances are you’ve never heard the name “Gene Colan.”

But if you’re aware of super-heroes, if you’ve watched larger-than-life costumed figures on a big screen engage in world-saving acts of derring-do, then you’re living in a world he helped build.

Gene Colan is known in the comic-book world as the artist who defined the Silver-Age Daredevil, in the same way that Jack Kirby was the artist behind The Fantastic 4 or Steve Ditko for Spider Man.

When I was a kid, my summers were spent, in large part, kicking around my grandparents’ house and lumber-yard, waiting for my dad to pick me up after work. I would quickly become a nuisance at the lumber-yard, getting under foot or getting in trouble for setting up packages or piles of nails or screws as ad-hoc terrain for action-figure battles.

What kept me out of everyone’s hair was when my grandmother would break out the giant boxes of old comic books that she had kept from her six childrens’ collective childhoods. My grandmother never threw anything out; especially books or magazines.

It was this that saw me, as a 5 and 6 year old kid, growing up with a wealth of Silver Age Marvel and DC comic books, along with stacks and stacks of Archies, Mutt and Jeffs, and Harvey Comics (the Casper and Little Lotta people.)

Daredevil, as drawn by Gene Colan, was one of the titles that she had the longest, unbroken run of. Starting from issue 15 through somehwere around issue 40, with a smattering of others out of sequence. Most of them were drawn by Gene Colan. He also did the 70s era TOMB OF DRACULA.

He, along with a host of other artists, inkers, letterers and writers are responsible for some of my best, sweetest memories of childhood; getting lost in the panels and action of impossibly good, brave and capable heroes who were pitted against impossibly terrible villains in long stretches of endless summer days. But not just mine. They created an artform and a storytelling medium, innovating each month, that fueled the imaginations and senses of wonder for millions of other kids, just like me, across many generations. At the time, I’m sure, it was all just a job and a paycheck and a series of career and industry political machinations.

But what they produced were the stuff not only that dreams were made of, but which shaped and influenced the nature of generations worth of dreamings. That’s something.

But still, with all that, I think it is instructive to see that in those last days, it wasn’t all about his career or accomplishments. What he was thinking about was love. From Cliff Meth’s Blog:

If I could change anything, I’d have put my whole soul into saving Adrienne. I would have moved mountains to save her. That’s the only thing I would do different… The best moment of my life was meeting Adrienne in Tanament, Pennsylvania. She was so beautiful–I couldn’t believe it. That was my best moment.

Safe travels, Gene Colan. And thank you.

Answer: This.

I had the full mp3 of this version on a work-computer from a long time ago. Anybody with it can feel free to email it to me and become my favorite person of the day. Possibly even week.

People tend to paint the 90s into an over-simplified caricature, wherein everyone was in flannel and had long hair and listened to Sub-Pop Seattle-scene music while navel-gazing about the generations collective identity.

As someone who spent 1992 in flannel (and super-hero TV shirts; some things never change) with long hair, listening to Sub-Pop Seattle scene music while navel-gazing about the generation’s collective identity, I am here to tell you: People like me were in the minority. We were a reaction to THIS. This was a big radio hit.

By the time the larger media world identified the world of music and aesthetic that rejected the popular crap of the day (remember, the 90s were also the time of Michael Bolton, C+C Music Factory, Vanilla Ice, Color Me Badd, the Backstreet Boys, etc.) as “grunge” and “alternative,” the whole scene was largely over. Nobody referred to it as “grunge” when it was happening, and if you did, you weren’t there when it was actually happening. Rap music also had an evolution during this time that became commercialized to a greater extent. Both were sort of “underground,” to a degree, in that you had to go looking for them and trading albums with other enthusiasts, because you would never hear either Screaming Trees or Das EFX on the radio or MTV.

Anyway, check this out. This is some serious Babylon-stuff right here. A dancing baby, forced to perform a terrible song for Prince and Whitney Huston (who alone, in the crowd, seems to understand the awful absurdity of it all. Maybe the only sane reaction to being in that world is to go crackhead crazy.)

So my mother recently went to her 40th(45th?) High School reunion and had occasion to speak to an old friend of hers who was also my 7th grade English Teacher.

Mrs. Galiette has the distinction of being the only education professional in my entire run of 6th to 8th grade who ended up liking me and not seeking to actively destroy me.

Seriously. I had a science teacher who would routinely kick me out of class for future crimes I may commit against him. The exchanges went something along the lines of
HIM: “Dobbin! Out!”
ME:”But Mr. P—-; I’m just sitting here. I haven’t done anything.”
HIM: “Yet.”

Blogging has been light-to-non-existent for a bit, since I’ve been squirreling away any free writing time to finishing the novel (I’ve got, like, 4, maybe 5 chapters left and the 1st draft is DONE.) so I’d like to at least point you, Mrs. Galiette, if you’re reading this, to some highlights of stuff that’s been here:

In which I recount an epic ninja battle

and

something I wrote about my dad and the process of living through a death

and

something people actually paid me money to write.

I also want to go on record as saying you were totally my favorite middle school teacher, closely edging out Craig Blanchard who, while awesome, was a co-conspirator and aider and abettor to the dreaded Leaf Report. And also, I honestly was scratching my nose and was not attempting to give you a crypto-middle-finger in Homeroom.

In other 8th grade news, I recently found an essay I wrote on Tale of Two Cities from that time period, when I was cleaning out my mother’s basement for her. I will scan and post it soon.

This is the coolest kid. She reminds me of another, once-upon-a-time AP History 10th grader who took on the then-Vice President of the US.

(P.S. Of course, the classy folks in the Right-Wing Troll Patrol have threatened her life and called this bright young girl a whore and expressed a desire to rape her.)